I believe conversing with the gf is a blunder.

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I believe conversing with the gf is a blunder.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july

We agree with you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let the lady glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry lady, be angry at him. We have done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply the person I will be.

Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my option to make an effort to keep in touch with her, but if she sets the record right because of the gf, ideally she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a problem towards the guy being the problem, which will be what’s going on.

Katie July 17, 2012, 9:50 am

As well as, just exactly what would you want to bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into one another really and truly just a coincidence?

Nadine 17, 2012, 9:52 am july

I am able to understand why you’ll believe means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, maybe perhaps perhaps not the ex-BF present relationship. Thats simply a complicator. The LW is only able to get a grip on her very own actions, and overlook the ex-BF calling and annoying that is being. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls need not be buddies at all. It could you should be an additional connect to the man for the LW, who’s attempting to cut ties that are emotional.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july

Thats a point that is good sure!

Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am

Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I accustomed be buddies using this number of dudes whom once had such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then it ended up being realised by me personally ended up beingn’t the girls, its the inventors. As well as the girls had been all people that are just normal, you realize, desired to determine if that they had a boyfriend or not…….

Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july

Yea. Its love, as soon as that occurs enough times- what’s the typical denominator? YOU MAY BE!!

I do feel detrimental to this GF that is new. She deserves to own a guy’s complete attention. And she deserves a man who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her which he nevertheless longs for her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW due to the fact man is telling her a lot of crap about her. Its just all incorrect. The whole thing.

Nadine 17, 2012, 10:09 am july

I’m bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its difficult being the very first gf after a long relationship, but thats generally why a lot of people go into all of them with their eyes available. Oh and the man has to“ stop droppingBut We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real means the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, maybe you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:25 am

Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW knows he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He wishes the LW become like “well I don’t care I will still blow you” or “Dump that skank, and come back to me” if you have a GF,

Katie 17, 2012, 10:27 am july

Yea, its like whenever i was in senior high school and me personally and my boyfriend would split up every single other week, in which he would “accidently” we would fight and get back together text me or something just so.

Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 2:45 pm july

@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and acquire straight right back together”

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am

I’ve said here a great deal, if the man whips out of the word “crazy” I operate one other means. I understand so men that are many use that word to hide for his or her dickish behavior.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am

We don’t understand why individuals would phone somebody crazy within the place that is first. I simply state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The simple fact on it, makes me think you may be the one that likes to stir the muck that you put a “crazy” label.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am

Additionally, if you’re happy to phone somebody crazy, wouldn’t which means that you may be kinda crazy also?

Rilooyah July 17, 2012, 4:44 pm

Therefore real! As soon as the “crazy” comes away, Im operating one other means. I do believe it had been stated above- once you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common constantly YOU, friend.

Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:21 am july

To Strapon dating site be honest, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about any of it too, and yet she continues to answer this dudes calls despite the fact that he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of the bull shit.

Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july

Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk for this woman since your simply planning to cause drama. You need to just recognize he’s maybe maybe maybe not your boyfriend as well as that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.

Katie 17, 2012, 10:35 am july

That is a point that is great you dudes. I didnt think about it like this.

So LW, if you actually do respect their relationship and wish them happyness, keep them alone!! Like eljay (I enjoy you, eljay) said, some one needs to end up being the adult in this example. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.

Painted_lady 17, 2012, 2:17 pm july

Amen bestie – we trust you about talking towards the gf. That knows exactly just what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their chatting many times, but as the relationship is none of the company, the truth that the LW while the brand new gf have actually met now i believe enables the LW some freedom. If I’d held it’s place in a predicament where a pal brought some body around that I experienced heard of and wished to be friends with (I’m gonna assume that the LW wishes that? ) and it went horribly, i would touch base and get, hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly. She does not fundamentally need to state, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend was saying _____ for me and he’s the main one calling, in which he said you’re fine using this, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly, I happened to be beneath the impression you had been fine with this being buddies, but i recently knew I’m maybe perhaps not fine with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”

Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july

I’dn’t communicate with the gf about it. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And simply to share with you that you respect her relationship? I might think you had been bullshitting me personally and playing head games. Simply Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex you don’t wish to hear from him for a time, and then keep them alone. Really they probably won’t workout them work that out themselves because you are still in the picture (which doesn’t do great things for a new relationship), but let.

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:39 am

Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It is therefore uncomfortable. Everyone else pretends they can be “mature” and stay buddies with exes and stay totally okay whenever your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have to be okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of 36 months.

Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july